Cuckold chastity mainly refers to physically enforced chastity through the use of a device to restrict a husband’s ability to have sex, masturbate and in some cases prevent and even punish erections.

Why restrain your husband’s penis?

There are multiple reasons a chastity device should be considered to establish full control of a cuckold’s penis. Reasons range from simple masturbation prevention to enhancing the D/s aspect of a relationship. Afterall, males are very penis-centric, aren’t we? It is the symbol of our manhood and at the core of our self-identity.
To control the male’s penis is to control the male and unless you have control of his penis, you don’t really have full control of a male.
Just as cuckolding itself reinforces a husband’s submission, chastity is yet another avenue to pursue to explore this submission.
As a Dom, it is an intense rush to watch a wife eagerly restrain and effectively disable her husband’s penis in front of me when they both know my cock will have full access to her body while her husband can’t even achieve an erection.
For most couples, chastity play isn’t a 24/7 lifestyle. For those couples who do have a 24/7 chastity lifestyle, it doesn’t come quickly or easily and again, I want to stress that for most, chastity is simply another facet of the lifestyle to explore together in a manner suitable for you as a couple.

For wives who began the cuckolding journey to overcome the frustration of having a husband with a wee little penis or perhaps a much larger one lacking in the requisite stamina to make the sexual experience satisfying, requiring her husband to experience the frustration of having their most basic pleasure and instinct denied can be an effective method of communicating the frustration she has long experienced prior to cuckolding him.

Enforcing Chastity Requires Hardware

There are many options for taking physical control of a cuckold’s penis in terms of the material used, how it fits and options for allowing or punishing a cuckold’s attempts at acheiving erection. Some devices are more for play than enforcing real chastity and will allow a cuckold plenty of opportunity to rub himself or even escape his device – especially if not properly fitted.

Wives often experience intense conflict over disabling their husband’s penis just as their husband experiences from sharing her. Wives will be thrilled on one hand having the control and experiencing the gift of submission their husband offers by giving up control of his penis, but feel guilty about being so thrilled and aroused by doing this to him. Fear not. Your husband wants to give you this gift – or more precisely, he wants you to take this gift. Chastity, for many husbands, is something many of them fantasize about and will become very excited when it’s discussed, but tend not to ask for it – it’s something they want to have done to them.

Chastity can also be used very effectively to correct poor behavior.

Remind Your Cuckold of his Role


a hung cuckold’s penis may need a larger restraint

A cuckold’s role is a supportive role. His wife’s pleasure comes before his own, this means if he’s spending the entire time rubbing his penis, his attention is definitely not where it belongs: on the union of his wife with her boyfriend.

As a rule, cuckolds under my guidance or ownership may not spurt (orgasm) without permission. This can be a problem because I prefer to not restrain a cuckold. Why, you ask? It goes with my preference for not tying or handcuffing a cuckold: I want his submission apparent to us and to himself. When bound, a husband has a subconscious ‘out’ for why another man is balls deep inside his wife, but when he’s kneeling by the bed, penis erect and leaking cuckold’s tears, there can be only one explanation: submission.



crying cuckold tears of joy for his hotwife and her bf

Likewise, when a cuckold’s penis is always restrained, it’s easier for him to accept not being able to use his penis as he once did, but when he’s erect and twitching, yet still humping nothing but air, his submission is much more apparent.

For some wives, nothing is more erotic than returning from a date to a horny, erect husband, eager to be second in line inside her, if lucky, or to be stroked gently in her hand while she recounts the details of her date. If her cuckold has been wanking his penis the entire time, she will be robbed of that opportunity – hence a chastity device could be effective until she returns to supervise his visits with his penis!

Chastity can be an important part of teasing and denial play. Teasing and denial is  a form of D/s where the wife takes pleasure in purposely teasing her cuckold both physically, verbally and even mentally. Over time, a form of chastity may be necessary when the cuckold isn’t supervised to ensure he isn’t robbing his wife or their Dom of the control necessary to making the denial aspect of teasing & denial effective.

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