Seen In Public

A sexy wife on a date with her boyfriend.

Dating is an advanced, though highly recommended lifestyle aspect for cuckold couples.

You can see how a wife in her early thirties can start looking like a college coed again when given the opportunity, and more importantly, a reason, to dress and behave like a carefree and sexually available coed.

Notice how her body is pressed to his? This gesture alone gives away their intimacy as a couple. Others watching them that night could tell simply by her body language that this is someone with the most intimate privileges to her body.

One of the reasons I recommend dating for couples is the same reason I like the wives I date to wear sexy things in public: if she only wears it for me indoors, it’s not likely to stay on long, preventing me from enjoying how she looks dressed that way.

Dating is another example of how a couple can enjoy cuckolding together.

When a wife and her boyfriend date, the door is opened to other activities that both they and their cuckold can share in:

  • date preparation
  • choosing outfits
  • ‘handing her off’ for the date
  • driving the couple to their date
  • even attending with them on their date

A date can create heightened anticipation for coupling.


Perhaps this picture was actually taken by her husband or perhaps the wife gave someone her camera to give their cuckold a view of their public date to share with him when they return home, where he awaits, to witness them consumate their evening together. Either way, the cuckold was then able to also share in their evening’s foreplay.

Besides the added benefit of extending the intimacy and pleasure of foreplay during a date, there’s also a significant thrill in being seen by others while dating someone else, especially when it’s interracial. For many white wives, the practice of being shown off as a black man’s sexual plaything is very erotic and what brotha isn’t going to revel in showing off his little white trophy?

Many couples worry about the fear of being seen by someone they know, but I coach that the odds of this anywhere but a really small town are quite low and even if it does happen, it’s likely to never even be mentioned as having been witnessed. Think of what you’d do if you saw someone else’s wife on a date – would you just call her husband and ask what’s up? I think not. You’d just sit on what you knew – or thought you knew.

And, finally, the last reason to date is part of why you should enjoy the cuckolding lifestyle as fully as possible: you only live one. This life is yours for living and should be lived as you see fit – not as others want you to live it.


  1. Great summary of open dating. My wife does it and we both enjoy all the preparation for her. Give us both something to look forward too 😉

  2. My wife’s public dating has become one of our most enjoyable activities in our cuckold marriage. She does all types of dating. She goes out with her BF for dinner, then to his place. She goes out for drinks with her lover ( another man) then to his hotel room. She likes to go out and meet men a bars, with or without me, and she like to go to the bars at business hotels to pick up men for a one nighter near us. Sometimes I go with her and watch from the distance, sometimes I’m with her, but most times I like to say home & masturbate and wait for her to return. Most times she will send me a few pics from her phone, both before and during sex with the man she is with to help me get off.
    We have been married for 15 yrs, in a cuckold marriage for 6 yrs with her dating other men, and 2 years ago graduated to a non coupling cuckold marriage ( which I wanted). My wife only allows me to masturbate and as a special treat, once in a while,clean her up after a date. We both love our relationship!

  3. Sounds so wonderful!

  4. My wife and I have been married for 10 years, and she is currently in a relationship with a man I’ll just call Scott. I know that’s terrible AKA but just go with it. Anyway, from the first day they meet I knew how things would end up. Oh she tried to deny her feeling for him, she said I was nuts and that I was being very clingy and insecure. I mean Scott was just this annoying guy at work right? I watched their relationship evolve from the “we’re just friends” charade to where I found myself spying on them while they had sex on the couch in the living room from outside the living room window. The really interesting part was the back story in between all of this. I have found that although watching Scott essentially rape her was humiliation in the extreme it was all the little things along the way that were acutely humiliating. Things like the nonverbal recognition Scott received from my wife’s friends that I never got from them; it was Scott parking his truck on my drive way causing me to have to park on the street. The suggestive glances they would exchange and that I would pretend I didn’t see. The list goes on and on. Boy I could tell you some stories.

  5. By the way my wife found this site and told me to check it out….

  6. Dating is a big part for my wife, she loves being seen with her BF in public especially having others see the flirting knowing whats about to happen between her and her handsome black BF, as for me is exciting to know she is getting the fun she deserves..

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