Outercourse

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Outercourse is the practice of engaging in physical, sexual intimacy, with genital contact,  without penetration.

For many cuckold couples, the practice of giving priority or even exclusive rights for intercourse to the couple’s bull or Dom is an erotic reality. One of the ways to make that dynamic more intense while also increasing the physical intimacy shared by husband and wife is by engaging in outercourse.

This wife chooses to trap his penis between them.

The most common method is for the wife to mount the husband on his back and for her to have control of movement – and his penis. She will, in effect, masturbate herself against the penis of her husband which is trapped between them. For smaller husbands (penis), she may have to hold it against herself to be able to keep up a rhythm while outercourse continues.

Outercourse is just one of many different ways I coach cuckold couples to experience and share intimacy without violating the intimate bonds that have formed between the wife and her lover.

Outercourse can be part of foreplay, part of edging play or an erotic way to provide the cuckold release after she has returned from a date.

About The Author

A loving dominant for couples since 1996, Luvr has personally enjoyed introducing and exploring cuckolding and D/s with couples for over a decade. Luvr launched FMSB.org in 1996 as a free community and resource to help educate individuals and couples about erotic cuckold marriages. FMSB.org became CuckoldMarriage.info in 2011.

8 Response to Outercourse

  1. Beth Stuart on September 16, 2011

    Allowing the cuckold to thrust while his penis is squeezed between the wife’s breasts (aka mammary coitus) can also provide a level of intimacy in lieu of intercourse.

    • Luvr on September 16, 2011

      Mammary coitus is especially effective when her breasts are covered in my love bites and his lube is what she failed to swallow fast enough!

  2. susansincharge on September 16, 2011

    My first girlfriend used to do this as well as rub herselt on my upper thigh to get off. At the time I thought that was just foreplay, and that is what women needed to be able to cum. I guess since it was instead of screwing and not prior to I should have got it, as it was maybe a 10 to 1 ratio. My wife’s favorite with me is with her on top, and to be honest, my little dick is doing nothing for either of us, there is no up and down and she is just grinding her clit against me, and so is almost outercourse itself. I think this is a good way to keep intimacy alive between us, and in this way she might even feel my dick.

  3. susansincharge on September 16, 2011

    I agree with you Beth, but for smaller guys, it is really difficult to make it work, you can’t really do any stroking with no length, so it just becomes work for the woman. I had tried it a couple of times with my wife, as her old boyfrieind (who had a real cock) used to do that to her, but after a couple of tries, we gave up, it just didn’t work.

  4. juniorhubby on September 25, 2011

    I absolutely love this idea. It seems to have naturally happened in our marriage because of my inability to control myself inside of my wife. Instead, she lets me hump her leg, which is a more humiliating method, but outercourse nonetheless.

  5. ian on September 28, 2011

    i have done this with angela, with her on top and grinding against me. even a small hard penis can be effective if she is able to rub her clit against it.

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