You have been expelled from the chat.

If you can identify an obvious failure in following the rules that you can address before returning, do so. Should you be able to return to the chat (not banned) and do so without resolving what got you expelled, you will then be banned in most cases.

This could be for one or more of the following reasons:

  • you failed to follow chat room rules
    (clearly posted on the chat page)
  • you were a complete douche bag
    (if I have to define that, hope is already lost)
  • you annoyed other participants
    (they said you’re a douche, too)
  • you misrepresented yourself
    • caught lying
    • multiple name usage
  • you’re using a ‘sissy’ name or a name which isn’t permitted
  • you entered using a name overtly inviting male/male interest
    (this isn’t a venue for bisexual or homosexual men to hook up)
  • you did something else which pissed me off
    (yep, it’s my place, I get to decide)

What can you do about it?

  • If you are able to log back into the chat it means I just wanted your attention
    • ensure you address any issues where you have violated the rules or when you return without having done that, you’ll just get banned
  • If you cannot re-join chat, go the fuck away.

Petition to lift ban:

If you want to petition your case for reinstatement and contact me via the site’s contact form, you better start by addressing why you think you were banned and what you’ll do to fix that. Just asking for your ban to be lifted is not going to get it lifted.