Re: GF agreed, now what?

It’s definitely crucial that she be able to develop a bond with her bull. This is key in the experience you two will have as a cuckold couple and a requirement in order that she have the safety and well-being necessary for her to be alone with him.

You’re on the right track suggesting she handle him directly to ensure he’s adequately hung. This doesn’t have to take the form of her jerking him off – instead, it should be part of her flirtation. It’s not only ok, but suggested that she be the sexual aggressor (the one to initiate kissing, petting). Because she should have already told this guy that she has a boyfriend who lets her date others (don’t have to explain you also encourage it) having her be the one to help herself to a handful of his cock should establish that she’s serious about taking this to a physical level AND give her the opportunity to judge his equipment and responsiveness. If this guy is put off by that, he’s never going to be a good fit as her bull anyway. She should tell herself that if she comes home from a first date without being able to tell you what his cock felt like in her hand, then she must not like the guy enough to take it physical. If she does like him enough and things are working in that direction, then she’s expected to be able to tell you what his cock is like before they have their first real date. A first real date doesn’t come with the expectation of sex, but rather the expectation of building intimacy and trust between them. If the first date ends in them coupling, so be it – if not, that’s also ok – it’s up to them, up to her to set that pace, not you.

Don’t set yourself up for failure/disappointment by expecting a first encounter with someone else will be in the form of a threesome – you’re assuming way too much. The guy, while accepting of you being aware/involved is likely to not be very experienced with the idea and will not be comfortable with you present at first. Pushing that to a requirement and you could basically ruin the experience for everyone. The threesome you’ll have is meeting together publicly so he can understand he’s an addition to things, not a replacement. During this public meet, your gf should take the lead between you two in order to clearly establish to her bull that she has you under control and you’re not a threat to him. Jealous men are dangerous men, so until the bull is comfortable that the cuckold is as excited by the prospect of him dating her as she is, he’ll be reluctant to relax. Keep in mind that every situation is different and it may work out that she needs to have a few ‘public’, casual dates with him to have the time to explain how all this works and get him ready to meet you and take the next steps.