Reply To: Am I a good cuckold?

I realize that any time you involve sex in relationship it can cloud good judgement and lead people to make decisions that they probably would not make if sex was not involved. Sex and sexual intimacy is a very powerful emotion and more than likely is one of the primary reason couples get divorced after they realize that there is more to a marriage then sex. So a cuckold relationship is a risky prospect no matter how you look at it. And people do fall in love under all kinds of situations.

So I understand your concern as it is a concern of mine. As others have told me, you have to decide what you are willing to live with as a cuckold, or if you truly want to be in a cuckold relationship.

My wife and her ex have spent a few nights together, a couple times at his place and once in a hotel for a weekend, which I suggested and personally arranged. That weekend was the first time they were alone without me. Was I anxious, fuck yes, was I worried that I had made a mistake encouraging this, fuck yes! But I had to test myself to see what limits I did have.

Now on the other hand was I intensely horny thinking of what they were doing, fuck yes, did I beat off more that weekend than I can remember, fuck yes.

Go with your but also be willing to push yourself. And don’t get defensive or do anything that would push her away and into his arms for good.