Reply To: True story first timer

I don’t see how she broke your trust. She told you he did not want to be video taped or recorded but you still agreed to her getting fucked by him. You both should respect his wishes and not record in secret.
Next time, tell her you want to watch in person. No recording.
And you need to spell out the rules of engagement in detail. If no recording = no sex then you need to discuss and agree. And define what degree of control each of you exercises.
But the real bottom line is… do you want to break it off with this woman who is fulfilling you fantasies? Don’t ask us, ask yourself.