Reply To: Friends or strangers?

Yes, to find the right guy is like the famous needle in the haystack. We use to find them through website’s and kept those guys writing emails. Once they understand there is no way to get between her legs soon, most of them dropped out by themselves. Choosing from the remaining and the one she liked, we arranged a first meeting in a coffee shop. A coffee takes not too long and sometines a bit full of surprises.
One guy, for instance, aged in one month for about 15 years, the other one claiming to be single but the fresh marking on his ring finger. In other words, it may come down from 50 applications down to 2 or 3 which she would take into consideration. Followed by different dinner invitation in a Restaurant to get a better view on those 2 or 3 guys, we discussed together the options available.
Finally we arranged another dinner appointment with her favorite, and invited him after that to our house.

Now 17 years in this lifestyle we made in only one case a wrong decision. Well actually this case was rather special. Being the owner of a monster tail my wife liked it for 3 or 4 times in a month. But spending a short vacation with him was a entirely different issue.