Reply To: Wife admits she loves us “differently”

Hey man,
Damn, that sounds intense—thanks for sharing the update. The shift from family Fridays to her heading straight to Dean’s after work must’ve hit hard, especially with the radio silence on texts. I’ve been there with Priya; early on, she’d go silent during hookups, and it felt like an eternity, stirring up all kinds of anxiety. But the way you handled it, giving her space until Sunday, shows how committed you are to this dynamic and her happiness. That’s huge.
The “Sir” thing and serving him drinks/snacks? It’s a clear step into that ownership/submission territory she mentioned. Priya’s dominant like that too—she’s got me greeting her four bulls (and 60+ randoms) at home, serving them drinks, cleaning creampies from her pussy and ass, and even sucking their dicks while locking eyes with her (that smirk she gives? Gets me every time). At first, the humiliation and awkwardness were overwhelming, especially as a straight guy, but it’s become part of what makes our bond stronger. She keeps me caged, lets me have sex once a week on Sundays, and I love fulfilling her every need. If Linda’s setting ground rules now, it might feel like your world’s flipping without warning, but talk it out with her—ask what these rules mean for you both long-term. Maybe start small, like non-sexual service to Dean, to ease into it and build trust.
You’re not fully on board yet with her submission to him, and that’s valid—communication’s key to make sure it works for your marriage. Sounds like she’s all in, and if you can find a way to embrace your role (like I have), it could bring you closer. Hang in there; you’ve got this because your love for her shines through. How are you feeling about the new rules? Spill if you want—here for you, buddy.