Collaring your pet is much less about the physical control and much more about a physical expression of her submission and the gift of her physical self to you. For me, it’s also about purposely flaunting and violating the societal norms that seek to box us in and tell us how we’re allowed to behave.

When you take these ideas and apply them to a cuckolding situation where the wife collared is not your own – it’s verrrry intense for everyone.