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Luvr is on point, though I laud your aspirations and by all means keep the bar high. For anecdotal purposes, when I started I was not nearly the man I am now and that comes from experience and learning. Mistakes here, guidance there, and the right women, couples, and even other bulls or alphas who could impart suggestions and advice.
In a certain light it looks a lot like a negotiation at first and certain compromises are necessary to get something going. So my suggestion to you both is to determine where your limits are now (the must-haves) and where your goals are (the would-be-nices). Work towards the would-be-nices with a bull, since frankly any good bull worth his weight isn’t a static dick on demand.
Good luck to you both!
