Reply To: Gf and I new here

Concurred with Prof above, Luvr put together a great resource here that, in contrast to some other places, is comprehensive yet not overwhelming. Peruse the guides, use the chat, message people.

Here’s my two cents: the lifestyle is what you BOTH want it to be. You two define it, and it’ll take on the form you want it to. My advice is to make the lifestyle beneficial and supportive of your and her dynamic with each other. What that looks like is up to you and your wishes, goals, and comfort levels. But if it isn’t working for you both, it isn’t working at all. Keep the lines of communication open and honest and grow with and into it 🙂