Reply To: Am I being a cuckold?

Per the dictionary you are a cuckold. Whether the man knows or not, participates or not, if the wife is having sex with another man then he is considered a cuckold. That is the dictionary definition.

But do you care about the label or do you care about the relationship? And are you happy with the arrangement? You sound like you have been happy with it for a long time as long as they told you detail but now you are developing a desire to see them. If that is the case then you should tell them.

If they don’t feel comfortable with that, maybe ask them to film?