Reply To: Advice on how to find man for my girlfriend

What do you do for fun outside of sex and trips to London? (And what does London have to do with it?)

You don’t specify if you want a long term bull, friend with benefits, one night stands or a boy friend to date and do vanilla stuff along with the fucking. How frequently you want him fucking your wife if it’s a repeat relationship? Also define if you want one bull or several that have to share her.

Now you have some basis for conversation when you do the job interviews. 🙂

I would say look through your list of friends and acquaintances you like. Many men will be open to the idea of being your wife’s lover if you suggest it to them – or she talks to them and explains that you don’t mind. You just have to take a little risk but you can feel out friends with conversation ahead of time – after all, they are your friends so you talk. Look for more liberal types.

Craigslist and places like alt.com are aimed at people focused on sex. Ashley Madison is known for married women looking for hookups… Or try to find someone who’s posts you like on sits like this and start a conversation. 🙂 The main problem with sites like this is that the people are from all over. It’s hard to focus on finding people within your driving distance.

BTW, Condoms are NOT safe sex. They are safer than nothing but they fail 5%-14% of the time… and fluids leak around them. One guy I talked to used a condom but got Herpes 2 on his pubic area / belly. I recommend long term relationships so you can lose the condom or not worry about failure. Longer term relationships also allow for STD testing, plus an agreement about who sleeps with who to limit the contact circle.