Reply To: My husband really wants this but I have some questions first

A stranger is definitely a good idea. If you have never done this before I’d proceed with caution taking matters that far into your own hands when starting up. If you value your marriage that is. Your husband is new to this too and may feel betrayed if he isn’t intimately involved in your initial experiences. Ultimately the decision is yours and you know your husband and relationship better than anyone posting on a forum, but from experience I would recommend discussing the ground rules of opening up your marriage further and thinking through this a little more before diving off the cliff blind folded.