Reply To: Struggle to find someone longterm

Thanks for the reply Luvr, always good to get an experienced view point, especially when as a couple we are still finding our way in this lifestyle.

We are members on a UK based swinging site, this is where we meet our prospective partners. We have been exploring the lifestyle now for around 6 years, in that time we have slowly progressed and explored our boundaries, and can now happily say we have found our comfort zone.
Throughout the years we have had several longer term partners join us, what we really yearn for is a deeper connection with another male, someone who is happy to be part of a three way relationship in essence, and someone who can take on the more dominant, sexual position in the relationship.

Cuckolding seems to be a very niche aspect of a swing lifestyle, this is where we seem to struggle as finding men who have experience with these types of relationships seems difficult, perhaps we need to cast our nets further afield.

Intercourse no longer features in our sex life together, this is something we both agreed on and are happy to omit. Frustration seems to set in though when another male isn’t part of things with us, this is on both our parts. Strange as it sounds to some, when you accept cuckolding, the input from another male is actually a requirement to a happy life together.