Reply To: Feelings between the wife and the other guy

I’m very concerned about this side of things…my wife is one of those girls who believes that it’s important to have feelings about a guy if she’s going to have sex with him and she’s not the sort of girl who has sex with lots of different men,..that she has been raised to believe that those girls are essentially sluts. .and I’m scared that she can’t have feelings for both of us in the same way..I am afraid that the only feelings she will have for me after is one of pity….she will feel sorry for me that I
A) want to be a cuckold
B) can’t compete sexually with another man
C) can’t posibly love her if I desire another man to have sex with her
D) am a sad guy that needs to find someone else who can be promiscuous