Reply To: 'Something new'

I don’t think there is a risk that C will have second thoughts. She is pushing me inexorably in the direction of her taking a lover. I want to slow things down.

We did discuss men that she’d like to fuck n some detail. She wants a bigger, more physical man than me. She said she wanted a man with a bigger cock and more stamina than me. She is not concerned about the age – she had older lovers before we were married. She seems to want to spend some time with this man. She is very impatient with stupid or boring people – this man will have to keep up with her intellectually and have a sense of humour. One of the men she liked was black. One looked Arabic.

We’ve not got into how I will make the arrangements. C clearly wants me to be involved and to consent.