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Voyeurcuck

    You really put yourself in a very difficult situation. And beside the obvious thrill of seeing another man fucking your wife, you’re also under her ex spell. Which you seem to like? I must say I’ve had good relationship with the guys fucking my wife too, but more on a peer basis and never like you describe.

    Basically you have two options I think: Either you step up and take back the leadership in your relationship meaning your wife needs to stop seeing her ex. Ideally completely cut the relationship, but as they have kids together that’s not possible, so at least not seeing each other alone. It’s not a cut off the lifestyle, you just need another male who understands and respects your marriage, but you need to pause for a while until you both are ready to play again.

    The other option is to continue letting her ex destroy your marriage. He seems like a player that wants to win your wife back – but for what? -Just to show he’s superior I guess, and then dump her again. Why did they split up the first time? Likelihood they would build a lasting relationship second time is very small IMO, so you just end up breaking your wife’s hard twice: First by divorcing you, second when she gets dumped by her ex.

    The first option may end up in divorce too, the second one for sure ends up bad. So take the chance, go for the first option and best of luck to you and your wife