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Wayne, I understand your reasons and would probably take the same chance you did if I were in your shoes. But what started out as a temporary game between equal adults seems to have turned into an unbalanced relationship for your part with no end date.
Being in that uncertain stage could be part of the thrill, but only if it’s clearly a game.
Have you considered to suggest a regular “time out” from your game where you all step out of. Your roles and discuss equally what happened and what is acceptable and what’s not?
I think you should suggest Wayne that option. If he agrees it shows he’s playing a game as in the beginning. If he refuse I suggest you contact a lawyer to ensure a fair divorce