Reply To: NJ mwc seeking help and advise please..

Good luck on your new adventure! I have been sharing my wife for about 15 years – its only a list of 4 men, one after the other. She likes having an exclusive arrangement with only one “Happily Married Man” – its safer, he knows how to treat a lady and she derives even more satisfaction by giving him something he is not getting enough of at home.

What has worked best for me is to select a possible guy from posting on line, thru messaging with a number of men, and then selecting the best one for a face to face. Once I select the right man, the next phase is to have her meet him as someone I already know from some connection – business, activities, hobbies, etc. That makes her more comfortable rather than a stranger. She gets to become better acquainted through a visit, a meal, a tour of someplace. He knows all along the objective is to get her to say “Yes”. Eventually she learns of his needs at home, and if he has profiled well, the ask by him to her is easy for her to accept. Mine would always check with me first and I would tell her to go for it.