Reply To: Wifes FWB coming for a long visit

As someone getting right into this lifestyle now, I will give you the benefit of my experience as a cuckold.

1. As any husband will tell you, the marital bedroom is in reality, the wife’s bedroom. She will have more wardrobe space, more dressing table space, and will always take up more bed space! The marital bedroom is also the place where she feels more comfortable in and where she prefers to have sex in private. So it goes without saying then, that when her lover/boyfriend visits he takes your place in her bedroom!

2. Privacy? In my experience a wife will do things with her lover/boyfriend that she won’t or can’t do with her husband. For example, some wives would never even think of doing anal with her husband but with a lover (especially a black one) she will do it without hesitation. I know my wife does and enjoys it very much. Privacy is also very important for the wife because she may feel inhibited doing and talking about things in her husband’s presence.

So yes, give them all the privacy they need. I have been fortunate to watch them a couple of times and it was very enjoyable, but it was granted by them. I didn’t ask.

Also, when they are together of an evening, leave them alone together. I usually go down to the local pub for a couple of hours. They will be in bed when I get back but I’m pretty sure that they will have fucked downstairs first. In fact, I have found unexplained wet patches on my armchair. I would imagine that a lover would get a lot of enjoyment in fucking a wife in her husbands favourite chair!

3. Privacy outside. When out of the area they will always be the couple – hold hands etc., I am just the tag along. It’s quite different in the locality but where possible they will snatch an intimate moment when no one is around.

My wife’s boyfriend has now moved into the area and she spends the odd weekend at his place. They invite me over for dinner/Sunday lunch but I always take a taxi back home later. Giving her that freedom and privacy pays dividends, I can assure you.