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Hello there, in my eyes many things could off taken place and your mind will always take you towards your desires. Whether she cheated or not there is nothing you could off done about it so I wouldn’t stress it. If she confesses it to you, I would asked if she enjoyed it. To me, that shows confidence and rather than punishing the truth you reward it with honesty.
Now I am not saying I have any experience in this life because I don’t have any yet, but my wife and I have talked about it and talk about in the open and it is deff happening in the future. Me personally, found out my interest based on an email letter that I once read where a husband described the discovery of his wife naked laying in bed after seeing their neighbors leave the house. The husband at first was mad and the got aroused at his wife and rather than a big fight he had great reclaiming sex. After reading the story I found myself dying to cum. I knew then something that drove me crazy. I meet my wife years later and just like you, I had curiosity about the life style. So I started to look for clues to see what she like sexually and I saw that every time we watched porn she went for DP. Then I asked her is had been w two men at once and she eventually said say and little by little I told her about my fantasies and she loved them. Fast forward I have three small children and this pandemic has put a hinder into things but I know it’s going. To happen. We talk about our fantasies while making love and it’s an instant cummer for the two of us.
If she doesn’t confess that she cheated, be on the look out for the things she likes and then introduce the conversation. After all she might be a confident woman who is very comfortable in her own skin.
