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Well if she said she didn’t want the kids to find out then that must mean that she would consider having a lover which is a terrific start. Go buy her some nice flowers and a bottle of her favorite wine and make her a nice dinner (or take her to a very nice restaurant where you can sit with her without others hearing your conversation). Never bring up this talk during sex because a woman will figure it’s just sex talk and will say anything she figures you want to hear at the time. Hold her hand and show her that you are serious and not just looking for something to be horny to. Make her understand just how much you love her and would never want to be without her in your life but you feel that she could have a much happier life if she had some sexual excitement, and having a lover/boyfriend would work perfectly for that. Tell her you’d never be jealous of anything she does with him and you’d be more than happy to be home with the kids. Also explain that you have no desire to be with another woman so that’s not your reason for wanting her to have a lover.

Now I don’t know anything about you yet, like do you have a tiny cock or are you terrible at sex, always cum quick then fall asleep etc? Does she have orgasms with you or do you think she’s just “putting in the time as a good wife but not getting anything for herself? Give me more information about you and your wife, home life etc so we can come up with something more designed for your situation. Send me a PM and we can go further with this. It appears that you think your wife deserves better than what you can give her so let’s get the ball rolling and get her into the strong arms of a good man. 🙂