Reply To: A Winning Combination?

OK, so I’ve just had a debrief conversation with my wife as she travelled back (to work unfortunately for me) and all the signs are positive. Not much changed in terms of the kind of sex they had but her FWB is consistent if nothing else. Consistent in giving her the sex she needs and is growing to love and it’s the kind that I can’t compete with. For a start, he has me beat in the girth stakes and my wife just told me that she can feel the aftermath of their coupling. That’s something that she has never said about our sex. She said that just talking about things like that got her all tingly too. I told her that it gives me the tingles when she tells me things like that! He’s definitely doing things to her insides that I could never do.

We got on to the subject of her feeling bad for me again. I reminded her that at for now, if the bare minimum I get is titillation from hearing about their coupling and the occasion edging from her, then I’m happy! Any more is a bonus. Foreplay without the intercourse, outercourse etc. I’m not going to lie, I was getting excited and hard just hearing some of the details and what it does to her when she thinks back to the sex and she can look forward to more of it too. THAT really excites me.

Because of the industry we work in and some of the practices of the industry (hotels), my wife is going to organise a hotel for them both, in a neutral city that will happen one day after her birthday, and unless something comes up, he has no objection to the plan. So she will be able to go the whole way in glamming herself up for him and they’ll be able to enjoy more space and comfort for their sex together. They will be able to enjoy a restaurant meal together beforehand if they like. It’s not entirely what I had in mind but it excites me no less and my wife is excited about the fourth coupling too. It also turns out that the arrangement they have been enjoying is something that her FWB is beginning to enjoy and relax more with.

They touched briefly on relationships and dynamics last night and a full blown girlfriend/boyfriend relationship is not something is looking for. It doesn’t want that level of connection. It’s too much. He’s very happy to have my wife as occasional, slightly regular company and to have some sexual intimacy and release with. I think that their sexual organs are really becoming accustomed to each other. Hopefully this will mean that I will one day become cut off from intercourse of any kind, completely from my wife. Related to that, my wife said that after her birthday coupling with him, she will take a month break from him. This is to loosen any bond that may be developing between them. I assured her that if that is what she wants to do, I will completely support her but I also told her that having some regularity means that she has something sexually positive to look forward to with clockwork frequency, which I don’t think is a bad thing for her.

They did have a conversation kinks too. It turns out that he is a little coy of confessing his darkest secrets so soon but he does have a little swinging experience and so isn’t completely green about things. He doesn’t really have a dominant side to him unfortunately. Just a damn good cock and a damn good method of use with it, but as he is becoming more relaxed with things, I’m confident that direct involvement in some way between myself and him IS on the cards. I think if I haven’t had any direct involvement after the next couple of meets, I will step up and introduce myself in some fashion and start with a thank you to him for looking after my wife.

From my perspective, so far, so good!