Reply To: A Winning Combination?

Finally managed to find a few minutes.

My wife had arranged a hotel meet with her FWB at the end of March. Had it panned out, it would have been a nice birthday treat for her but in the end, it wasn’t to be. He cancelled a few days ahead. Thankfully, no deposit on the hotel room had been paid of petrol put in the tank. The room was going to cost nothing (a loophole/benefit of working in the hotel industry) thankfully but did leave my wife feeling frustrated to say the least. Every dark cloud has a silver lining though, right?

This hiccup allowed my wife and I to take stock a little. To reflect on the situation and in the end, we remembered that nobody is beholden to anyone and that any one of us could call it quits at any given time. So cherish the good times and………that’s it. Just enjoy things for what they are and lower expectations to more realistic levels. Disappointments are going to be less frequent with that kind of mindset.

Fast forward a week or so and new plans were made. The usual arrangement though. My wife travels to him, they remain on the boat, chat, relax, maybe a drink or two and loads of great sex. In preparation, my wife bought new underwear for the occasion. She had a new dress that she wanted to test out too. Both items got little attention from her FWB. When the time came, the underwear was quickly dispatched to the floor with little or no time for admiration. The sex part of the evening started earlier too, so the effects of alcohol made no impression on them, which was a bonus. It was more of the same kind of goings on though. Lots of missionary, lots of kissing and my wife rode him more this time. He still couldn’t cum though. Not until the morning fun started and my wife gave him one of her blowjobs. He came then though and again complemented her oral skills. At some point in the proceedings, my wife straddled his face and according to her, he’s pretty good at oral also. This guy has the talents it seems. Oh to find out what he would be like with more room to romp around in!

I got a WhatsApp message quite early in the evening and it just said, “thinking about you while I have lots of really great sex. Xxx”. That was it though. I didn’t hear from her again until the next day when she was on her way home. I was busy doing something though and after a little chat, it was decided that we would continue the debrief upon her return home. When she returned, we had hug and did some kissing ourselves and she did taste different. 40 minutes prior, she had taken his cum in her mouth. I couldn’t say what the kiss tasted like but it was definitely different. We tried to talk about her night but we kept getting interrupted by our daughter so it was going to be a bedtime discussion in the main but we did touch on a couple of things.

They did discuss me a little more. Along the lines of, “Is Matt still OK with things?” So that was a yes and with a little further discussion, my wife came to the conclusion that her FWB was practically vanilla in his sexual outlook and the bad news for me is that in all liklihood, me being in the same room anytime is just not going to happen. Being in the general vacinity is going to be unlikely too. So I suggested an open ended phone call. She calls me at an opportune moment, doesn’t talk but just leaves the phone on the side so I can listen in. But it’s finding that moment. The idea of her saying, “let me just call my hubby so he can get his rocks off” just as they’re getting going just isn’t going to work. My wife knows that I need some form titillation to keep this 3-way dynamic alive and we discuss ending things if she was sure that he couldn’t be brought into our marriage some more and ending things is a serious option. But I love how happy and full of joy and sexually satisfied she is when she comes home so for now, unless that changes, we’re going to carry on for a while. Who knows. Maybe (hopefully) he can come out of his anxiety a little more.

Later on in bed, after releasing me from my chastity device, I was given a loving and long edging session by my wife’s hand at first before moving onto PIV missionary edging. A little dirty talk thrown in helped things along very nicely. I did say to my wife that as long as she is happy to continue getting the sexual servicing from her FWB, then I am happy too, but I do need this physical teasing to make it worth while for me. She could cut me off from PIV stimulation but I definitely need physical stimulation of some kind. Hearing this was delightful to her and so it shall be this way……at least for a while.