Reply To: A Winning Combination?

Right now, there’s a high probability that my wife’s FWB is balls deep inside my wife on this, her 5th visit to him. Slightly different this time as it’s not a weekend night and she has work tomorrow. Fortunately, her position in the company that she works in allows her the privilege of working from home occasionally. It also means that she can take her sweet time getting home as she works to her own schedule and demands.

This morning as I left for work, my wife was getting ready for work in the usual way, only today, she wore a skirt, a Hawes & Curtis satin pussybow blouse, suspenders and stockings and t-bar stilettos. My favourite kind of look on a woman and I’m quite sure that her FWB will be quite appreciative too! I’d like to think that the at least the heels are still on while he’s fucking her ways that I can’t. Filling her fuller that I absolutely can’t and I really think that my wife is getting quite comfortable with our arrangementt/dynamic.

We discuss her FWB with some regularity. It can be related to their connected work or it will be related, to their sexual chemistry but the conversation is easy often but without it being obsessive or worrying and I think that we both share the same perspective in that regard.

The dynamic and nuances of it are slightly different to how imagined it would be. The chastity element is inconsistent but that has it’s plus and negative sides. The plus sides being that my wife is more likely to indulge me with some physical teasing if my dick is free and easy and edging is just so much more exciting when done by her. It also means that I can edge a little when time and circumstances afford me it. As easy as it is to wear my current device, day-to-day life is a little easier without it too. Working and especially my bike riding benefit from things being loose. Negatives of not being locked are things like not being constantly reminded of the kind of relationship that we are in. Constantly? Perpetually I mean! Haha!! That’s about it really.

What I am loving is how relaxed and enjoyable things have been getting for my wife. We’re coming to the end of the, “well this is quite weird” stage and entering into a very relaxed, “what will be, will be” plain of thinking. Not in a devil may care type of attitude but more like a natural state of mind. Things are just humming along nicely. The strange thing being, that that state of naturalism is actually quite thrilling to me and whilst there isn’t the creampies, the photo’s or videos and the various other peripheral elements often associated with cuckolding, I know that tomorrow evening, my wife and I will enjoy some intimacy together ourselves and it will be electric when we’re touching each other and the liklihood of me cumming or being made give her every ounce of me, seems to be slowly waning.

That’s where we are at.