Reply To: Need some pointers for the next step

First time next step, hope our experience helps. It took me almost five years to talk my wife into having sex with another man. I wanted to do a threesome as I wanted to see her totally pleasured. Two things she was greatly hung up on. One ruining our marriage. I promised her I would never let anything happen us. Now way I said. Second issue, she said I just wanted to do this so I could have an excuse to have sex with another woman.
The first thing we worked on was no matter what went down we were to always stay together and never let our marriage fall apart. So this created rule number one for us. We would always be together, I was never to leave her alone with anyone. Therefore I was always to watch to ensure her safety. Understand I served four years in the Marines and it’s what she loves most about me, that she always felt safe when I was around. Rule two, I could never stop her when she liked a guy and was having fun and I had to watch no matter how I felt. In other words don’t ruin her orgasm. Rule three if she was to go bareback I was to eat her pussy clean, it was a way to share risk. Either way with these first set of rules. It was a win win for both of us. Alway get everything out in the open and discuss each of your concerns. Set boundaries and expectations and stay with them. You will experience both good and bad. Discuss it all, make adjustments. Expect your life to change but you can only have great long lasting experiences through good conversation both before and afterwards. We have been successfully doing this since 2003.