Reply To: Bareback without birth control?

This is always a difficult question and no one can take the decision away from you both. The safe way is, of course, any type of contraception already for the flexibility resulting from this.
Without getting into the circumstances, my wife had once a desire to get pregnat from him. It wasen’t just an idea, no, it was a serious desire and came up again and again in her. Well, she was very much in love with him.
But I was ultimately against her stopping the pill. A year later I faced again a job transfer and today she is actually glad that she did not do it.