Reply To: A little advice please, where do I fit in all this?

Hey Dave,

I am coming at this from a bull’s perspective, so take it with a grain of salt, but here are some thoughts. The bottom-line upfront is that if you want your wife to sleep with other men, with your knowledge and support, you are a cuck (or at least the desire to be one). That is it. Whether you conform to some internet stereotype of what a cuckold is or isn’t doesn’t matter. Most of that stuff is nonsense anyway and the only things that matter is what works for you, your wife, and your marriage.

Far too often the internet stereotype is that all cucks are underendowed, terrible lovers, submissive in/out of the bedroom (i.e., betas), and have sissy desires. While there may be some cucks out there who fit that stereotype, it certainly isn’t most or all. In my experience, most cucks would easily be described as typical husbands. Most are at least average size, have average sexual abilities, and are far from being outwardly submissive.

I’ve had cucks who were above average in endowment. I had one who had been with couples himself. For most, our relationship has often been their first experience exploring their submissive feelings.

What unites them all is the desire to have their wives pleased by another man. Additionally, the desire is usually for that man to be a well-above-average lover. In fact, they want the best for their wives. Size, stamina, body, confidence, and general ability to please.

All of that is to say don’t overthink it. Find what works best for you, your wife, and your marriage. Also, realize that getting involved in the lifestyle is a learning process. Your wants and desires will evolve with time as you find what you like/don’t like. Take your time, over-communicate with your wife, and play safe.

Happy to discuss further and answer any questions. Best of luck