Reply To: Found your place?

Your last sentence is an interesting one. While I have been with younger couples and those who have been together a relatively short amount of time, I generally think it takes a certain amount of maturity and time together for couples to be ready to explore the lifestyle. The husbands must be mature enough to admit their desires to themselves and confident enough to tell their wives. The wives need to be open minded enough to listen to their husbands and trust that their marriage can support exploring things.