Reply To: She Chose Deeper Intimacy

When you two first started playing, did you two discuss emotional involvement/attachment? If so, what were your opinions at the time? How have they evolved and matured since then?

I ask because I find that most rookie couples see emotional attachment as a risk. They worry that if the wife becomes emotionally involved with her lover/bull that it may hurt their marriage. They also worry that if the bull becomes emotionally attached that he may lose sight of his role in the relationship.

I think tends to change with time. Great sex is obviously wonderful, but great sex with emotion is incredible. Additionally, it is hard for a woman not to become emotionally involved with a man who brings them so much pleasure. Finally, any man worthy of being called a bull will understand his role in the relationship and be able to balance emotional attachments.