Reply To: Can you believe this?

So, and this of course is my two cents, i would personally offer a second chance i believe. Of course, i don’t have all the info. I do agree that respect for boundaries (to a certain extent) in a relationship is one of the keys, the other being communication. It’s certainly feasible and understandable that you may have over-reacted (who wouldn’t in a breach of trust?) however, it’s when we as people take a step back and take a breath that we come to find what the proper level of reaction ought to be. From the section where she cried and profusely apologized, it seems that she was genuinely attempting to be contrite for getting caught up, or whatever the given explanation was. The bottom line here is that in a loving and caring relationship both people have to be clear about what is expected when starting something new. You know, the Christians have a saying, “turn the other cheek” which I believe is important, as a Wiccan myself, we believe that all acts of love (including the kinkiest sex) are of the Goddess, and thus are sacred. This further adds to my point that all parties have to communicate honestly. I’ll leave you with this, whichever way you’ve decided remember that we’re all humans and as such are prone to take missteps. Best of luck and may the God/Goddess bless you.