Reply To: An Accidental Cuckold

SOT,

Thanks for sharing. It was an interesting and thrilling read.

Here are a couple of random thoughts:

– “I thought the whole cuckold lifestyle was odd and probably largely exaggerated.

” That’s a great point. I still think a lot of what you find online is exaggerated and typically fantasy, but there are obvious aspects that aren’t. I can’t tell you how many of my couples told me up front that they weren’t interested in things like bareback, cleaning, or her playing alone with me, who a few months or even weeks later weren’t exploring those exact things. I think it all comes down to exploring what feels right in a comfortable and safe environment. I let my couples change their minds only when they were ready and never insisted on anything.

– While I certainly understand your wife’s interest in the young man, along with the excitement for you, I would suggest continued caution. While young guys may have the body and sexual drive to be great partners, they often lack other key factors, like discretion and an appreciation for their role with the couple. To be blunt, a lot of young guys can’t keep their mouths shut and will ruin a good thing by bragging.

That’s not to say that you should definitely rule him out. I had a young start with couples and know other men who have. It matures you quickly and the smart ones realize that discretion is crucial. Just take the time to see if he has the maturity to be a good partner and talk it over with your wife.

Your wife is obviously attractive enough to get attention, so if you don’t think he’s a good fit, don’t feel pressured to go further. Be selective

– I am not surprised that he seems surprised by the couples dynamic. My first time with a couple started off as a threesome. I wasn’t sure why he wanted to be with his girlfriend, but the threesome aspect still made basic sense to me. What really surprised me though is when I realized that he was watching more than participating. That became more pronounced the more times we were together. Eventually, it was clear that he preferred watching.

At that age and time, I had no clue that other couples did things like that. I thought our situation was unique. It wasn’t until I was with my second couple that I began to understand that it wasn’t unique. That fiancee/husband was the same way and preferred to watch. They introduced me to lifestyle websites and cuckold porn. I learned about terms like bulls, cuckolds, and hot wives. Suddenly the first boyfriend’s behavior began to make sense.

THis young man is likely ignorant of the lifestyle as well. He probably doesn’t understand why couples do this and particularly why husbands want it. If you two decide that he is right for you, it may be worth educating him a bit.