Reply To: I think I’m turning my girlfriends husband into a cuck

They’re both 41. Been together since early 20’s. I guess as far as trust, he probably lost that since he found the videos of her with me. She trusts him not to cheat because he’s never been with another woman. But she lost trust in him in a sense because there have been a few times where he’s taken advantage of her sexually when she was drunk. And one time just forced himself upon her. The other trust issue with her is his family treats her like shit and he doesn’t stick up for her to them. But then they also treat him like shit and he just takes it. He doesn’t stick whatever they say. And if I’m being honest, he does whatever she says. I understand the masterbation thing. Tonight I told her to bring up how he was turned on by the videos. If he admits to it again to start Jacking him off and try to get him to be more specific as to what turned him on. He’s still at a point where he doesn’t want her to talk to me. But he seems to be easing up on that today and yesterday. Like he’s not as insistent. So idk how calling me a better lover would go over right now. lol. Is that how you want to be talked to? What would be some signs that he would like that?