southwestcple
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    You’re probably right. Could be a good idea to register on the site and have a look at it together. Maybe get your wife to post some questions she might have. They all assure me there that if you go to a party you are under no pressure to play and there is one venue in particular that if you choose to remain downstairs it’s just like any other house party (except there’s more black men than usual of course).

    We started by joining a swingers website and posting some pics. Also went in the chat room and showed off on cam. Jayne was very nervous at first but loved getting lots of nice comments from guys enjoying the pics and webcam show. You only show what you’re happy showing show no face shots if you want to keep things private.

    But there are loads of ways to get started. As I said in my blog. Edge in slowly. Get used to it. If you both like then edge in a bit further. Oh. And stepping back isn’t necessarily bad or the end of it. Can be to just give time to think.