Re: Vulnerability

Yes Lady Omphale. You are so right to exam the this aspect of the new relationships bioth physically and emotionally.

You are especially vulnerable physically meeting new man you may not have taken the time to know very well(for some Women that's part of the enticement, for others they need to be with someone they know well, are previously attracted too and trust). Please make sure you discuss this openly with your sub and have plans for every dangerous possibility.

You are also vulnerable to the feelings of guilt breaking away from long embedded traditions. Talking with your husband and others should help you through this. Your husband needs to convey that he is understanding of his role in your life. You need to find out from him just what his thoughts are and needs and then assess the best way to lead him onward in your journey.  That's what he wants most from you. To see you as the stronge and confident  Woman he worships and desires to make happy. If you are truely in a Domme/sub dynamic he is hoping you with take him to where he is afraid to go alone.

There is so much more to say on this. So very exciting to think about.