After you go down on him, do you tell him you would like to jack off? Would he watch? He may discover he likes watching

Still sounds enjoyable. And if you can have a beer and watch something on tv and make an evening of it… Then enjoy it for what it is. Don’t over think it.

Could he possibly move in and find a local affordable apartment? That would provide the kids with a single stable home. And a place for he and your wife to be together. And for you to be with him on occasion. My recollection is that you enjoy serving him as well when the opportunity permits.

What about being open and honest with the kids.…[Read more]