Re: Understanding Myself As A Cuckold

Hi Bazram

Yes I would love to know waht happened did she just go off with the bull and leave you. I can actually relate to the compersion. I am a purely logical man and believe in scientific explanations for things. However once I was inthe prescence of my wife’s lover in a restaurant but had no idea who he was. He happened to be standing at the bar within two feet away. At this time she had not come out so there was no reason to connect. Not being a gay man I have no feelings for men but here I was having some sort of feelings for this strange man unusual and submissive feelings. to this day I cannot explain this one scientifically other than to think we may build up joint feelings as a couple over time. Carl Jung spoke of the collective unconscious which is the only psychological scientific theory which comes close.