Re: Help! . . Am I doing/saying the right things?

Tell her how much you want her to enjoy other men and reassure her that you aren’t seeking to cheat on her then praise and encourage any interest she shows in other men. It requires patience but it is worth it. There is nothing to compare with the feelings of another man having the woman you love and adore.

In my experience most women can become open to this in the right circumstance, almost all of our female friends have had other lovers while married. I’m pretty sure its the natural way of things.