Re: Wife Having Lover’s Child

@subhubbie said:

@cuhlman said:
the last thing she wants is for me to be totally devastated and leave her (not that I ever would but I haven’t told her that).

Great story, cuhlman. Thanks for sharing.

I was a little disturbed by your comment above.  As your wife’s submissive husband you should of course always tell her you love her and will stay with and serve her forever.  You are privileged to be with her, and need to recognise that – not the other way round.  She could easily find another guy if she wanted to – it is you that must work to keep her, and be glad to do so!

Of course you can stand teh humiliation of her coloured child. You are just a submissive cuckold. So long as she is happy, you can stand by her side with the baby and take in any humiliation.  People are unlikely to question you, but if they do, you should have discussed this with your wife, and give an answer to the situation that she is happy with.

 

Subhubbie,

I wouldn’t read too much into the statement, it was my last attempt at showing the upper hand; there have been so few over the years of our marriage. Nevertheless Carol knew that I would say yes because i am too far down the road of submission to have refused.

You are also very correct to say that I am privileged to be with her and I do tell her that i love her as often as i can. I also tell her in my submissive actions like helping her get ready for dates with her Lover (i always advise her on what to wear), wearing my restraint (it’s a part of me now) and kissing the spot on her tummy where the baby is starting to grow inside her. Even before she became Onye’s Mistress i was always very affectionate towards her, and this has not changed one bit over the last few years.

As for the humiliation of my wife bearing a child of different colour to us both; i am at peace with this now. The most important thing is that the child is loved, and he or she will be, by all three of us. Its 2012 for heaven sake so why should i worry what ‘people’ might say. I told Carol this the other night and she burst into tears as she had been worried about this aspect of my commitment to her.

All is happy in our household now and all four of us (five maybe – who knows) are loving the life we are leading, none more so that me; the submissive cuckold – servant to my lovely pregnant wife.

Good luck in your journey!