Re: So near, yet so far.

Matt,

You’ve both done well to get to this point. The dynamics you describe are very common for many couples, but you are fortunate in that that your wife is both comfortable and effective in her role as your dominant. As you two explore cuckolding, you’ll both find it more and more comfortable for you both for her to have that role.

With regard to ‘strangers’ – what makes a stranger no longer a stranger is getting to know them. If she puts on her ‘Domme hat’ and keeps in mind how talking to and flirting with other men pushes the buttons of her ‘boy’, she may find the courage to do so far more easily than simply doing it for her own enjoyment. Having you with her or nearby can also help minimize her nerves if those nerves are related to her sense of security. Having you nearby but not within visual range can help if she’s anxious about having you watch her interact with other men, but remind her that as your Domme, she’s actively being your Domme by having you witness her interaction and flirtation with other men.