Re: GF agreed, now what?

gfawkes,

She finds this guy the same way she found you – by dating, by letting nature take it’s course when a female is appealing to the males around her and they react to that attraction,thereby creating courtship. It’s not unusual for couples to assume there’s some special way to look for this experience, but the truth is, good ol’ fashioned flirtation does the job very well.
Unless she’s kept locked away in a cave somewhere, she’s likely around men on a daily basis. This may primarily be through her workplace, but that’s ok. There are some caveats to workplace romances, but they aren’t something to discount. In addition to her work and other routine destinations where she can and should interact with guys, you should both look to find other opportunities to socialize her and put her in circumstances where she can behave as a sexually available woman. This is the process that develops trust and confidence in the guy she’s dating and enables you both to feel he will respect being an addition to your relationship and not a replacement.