Re: GF agreed, now what?

Hi Luvr!

Thank you so much for your reply! your advice is well taken…

We’ve both agreed not to do it with someone we already know, it would be too awkward and potentially dangerous, socially speaking. We’ve decided, as you say,to let it flow, go into a bar or a lounge and just let her interact on her own, with me watching from a cautious distance. Besides that, we’ve agreed on certain rules, even going to the point of giving this the chance of being more than a 1 night thing and becoming an exploration stage in both of our lives.

She believes is crucial for her to see her potential bull as a person that could become a friend (not that he will become), someone with whom she could feel really comfortable around. And of course, to be handsome for her. In this case, we have a doubt, because she wants to make sure that the guy is well endowed, but how to know without being brutally blunt? I’ve given her permission to give the potential bull a pre-emptive handjob to measure size, but the idea is not to scare the guy off…what would you recommend? we’ve decided that if she decides to “go” for a guy, she has to be absolutely clear on what the deal implies, so if the guy’s scared off or says no, no hard-feelings.

We’ve agreed to have a threesome the first time, and then depending on how we feel (specially her), we could extend the deal with this potential guy. She even told me that she’s seriously considering it, and that it would imply me being present only on 1 of every 3 encounters, maybe less, and she thinks they could have sex almost daily. I don’t know if its going too fast, but at least we’re getting our rules and hopes out there. What do you think?

Thanks again man, its tough to find good answers out there, best!