Re: GF agreed, now what?

I’ll guess you’re Guy! Thanks for admitting the rest of us into your thoughts and reflections. Your candour does you credit.

Your points about the right bull and your rollercoaster emotions are I suspect linked. They should be too. A mature bull, who understands and uses his prowess AND who imagines the impact that this will have on the hotwife and the cuck is essential. He has to be able to talk with her about your shared fantasies. He works to help her discover her deeper and occasionally darker sexual desires. Some hotwives are startled by what they discover-the need to feel so wanton, perhaps publicly, the need to put another man down whilst going with the more attractive/able male (the rut is alive today for humans too). Couples vary in what is hot for them-the menu mix. So things have to proceed by steps as Luvr’s posts emphasize and through that trust develops. Slowly she trusts him to trigger her deeper needs, to enjoy being more instinctive about sex. She understands that the bull will not push too far or too fast-as she has to manage you as well. She will not want to lose you through the gift you give. The chance to explore her sexuality to the full can be a pandora’s box. She knows that so well. So she watches and listens to her bull, how he facilitates her explorations, which in turn directs yours-your submission to her choice in these things, her right to redefine sex in some degree or other. Its a series of discoveries. Perhaps (and remember I surmise-those variants again), she discovers that she enjoys teasing you most of all, talking about her bull, being with her bull, going out with him. She wants you firmly in the chase, but perhaps always lagging a bit behind. So she asks her bull, can we take my hubby on dates and flirt in front of him-that is so sexy for me and it makes him ache oh so deliciously, that we have great sex later. A mature bull says sure-and they date in front of the husband, kissing and touching and petting. You could say the bull is ‘used’, but its a consensual and a mutually satisfying thing. Later, when he takes her he will have his own buzz regarding bettering you.

The angst thing is normal and its a certain thing that ejaculating triggers some doubts about the cuckold way. You’re about to submit to her desirers, her rules, and that’s arousing because it makes you want her so much more. Its a good thing then when she learns to deny you in a mix of different ways, so that you don’t plunge so often into those doubts. You will learn to concentrate on your lady and her pleasures-as it should be.