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Hi Matt,
Changed contexts dictate new rules-it was the theme of ‘The Lord of the Flies'(we become instinctual). I find that away from home a lady relaxes with her instincts, she becomes ‘a bitch’. It can be a wrestle for the husband to submit so completely then, and in these situations the bull must be consistent, firm and directive. He is going to enjoy the lovely wife and the husband is going to facilitate that. The whole holiday has been arranged to that purpose and the lucky woman has savoured the idea of it as preparatory days have passed. Perhaps she has been taken out before hand by the husband and been bought sexy attire that both know the bull likes her to wear. There is a ritual to this. As she pulls on that thong, slides up those stockings, she knows what this means and where this is leading. The thought of watching the bull control her husband, so that he can ravish her, is deeply erotic.
The creaking bed is important. It makes a point about working with the senses. Witnessing sex, everything may or may not be part of the vacation. Anticipation and discipline are key. This is a big tease for the husband and something that I find women love. Perhaps he listens to the sex as in my example. Perhaps he is made to inhale the scent of her used pussy-something hyped to a crazy level if she drops her skirts over his head. No touch now! Taste is an important sense-delicate touch with his tongue is directed. The very heat of the salty white residue can trigger huge sensations in his head. I tell the lady, ‘train him with me now and he will be devoted to you and your pleasure for the rest of his life!’ She is learning to be a siren, a witch, a temptress, a harlot-a thousand things that can make her head swim and which will enslave him.
Vacations of this kind are very erotic and because they are ‘other’- in another place, they are safer places to try out role. The cuck can manage his shame, doing as the bull says. His work mates are not there, and there is no family near. The cuck is another man, pliable and submissive, instinctively beta. The hot wife can be hedonistic and selfish, fucking as and when she pleases and all with the regular male nicely suppressed. Inevitably the couple review it afterwards, and for many, I know this becomes a cherished aspect of the lifestyle. ‘This week away Howard I will make you obey Jezz, you must do all he says, he wants to own me completely and I can’t go on pretending that this is something to be resisted.’
A perfect vacation is one in unison-with an intelligent bull who wishes to dominate the husband and enjoy the wife. It is one with a cuckold who wishes to submit to both-his mistress and her boyfriend. It is one where a hot wife gets to explore abandonment and the selective humiliation of the also ran male. So yes Matt, it is necessary for the cuck to walk behind us, in public and metaphorically elsewhere too!
