Re: noob cuckold here

Welcome. Having your first cuckold experience involving someone you work with is definitely more complicated. Being a cuckold for your wife isn’t as much about ‘accepting your role’ as it is accepting the realities that come with inviting the exploration of having this role in your marriage. Referring to it as ‘accepting’ it implies you didn’t have choice, but that’s not really the case – there’s always a choice. Perhaps what she means is that having entered into this lifestyle, the anxiety is can produce isn’t easily managed and you sometimes have difficulty with it. News flash for your wife – no one is more responsible for helping you manage your cuckold anxiety than she is. If she can’t find the time or energy to do that, you need to consider yourself a victim, not a cuckold.