Re: Learning to humiliate

Thanks for the response Mat. I think that the degree of humiliation sought by cuckolds varies markedly and connected to that come the agreed rules. Unbridled humiliation can be just as bad as not realising that a cuck needs this. Humiliation needs to operate as part of a consensual agreement between the hot wife and cuck. But consider this-if everything is spelt out in detailed contract, then there is little living on the edge, and that for some couples is part of the excitement. If there is no angst, nor clear contrast with the vanilla lifestyle, it all feels like a job. He does this, she does that-it might not seem so much like living. Perhaps then cuckolding feels like an occasional game-‘playtime’. That may be exactly right for some. Quite probably there is a wide spectrum of need/philosophy here. At one extreme there is some BDSM stuff-not my cup of tea. At the softer side there is degrees of humiliation-more or less codified. My points above start the conversation, and especially for new hotwives who are unaccustomed at humiliating a male.