Re: Our “hotwife path” up till now. Pls advise what’s next

We are both 50 and married for over 25 years. A year ago during a bottle of wine we discussed fantasies. I admitted to her that I had strong urges and desire to see her take on new lovers. During this discussion I let her know that if she had ever been with another man I would love to hear the details. Her reply was “that’s ancient history” why start looking for things to fight about. I let her know that her statement was an admission and that it aroused me immensely. I took her to the bedroom and undressed her. I turned off the lights and lay next to her. In the darkness I caressed her and let her know that she had just fulfilled a fantasy of mine. I asked her for the honor of the details. She admitted at that point that she had submitted to a handful of lovers over the years. She started by telling me about the first time. The details were amazing especially considering it was only one year in to our marriage. I have since learned of 7 different men over the years some who had regular couplings with her. Thinking we were heading to divorce court I suggested she look at a different option. We have discussed a cuckold relationship at length. Kay is now dressing differently, letting me take her to restaurants and clubs and she is being hit on regularly. We were nervous as two kids as we invited her first lover to our home. It was a vanilla affair. They made out on our couch, fondled and undressed each other. At my request it moved to our marital bed. At her request I remained silent, at a distance and dressed. As coitus was achieved in our bed, and her obvious pleasure came to the surface our moment of reality was here. I have never satisfied her sexually and her extra marital trysts over the years pleasured her as I was never able to. This night turned out to be a one night stand. We lost contact. We are both wanting to find a regular lover(s) or boyfriend(s) for her. looking for like minded folks for guidance.