Re: In praise of Emily

WHAT BULLS DO

Time before I pick up Mags for a reflective point or two. In cuckold lifestyle blogs you don’t get a lot of insight into what bulls do. Luvr offers some great points in his guides, but that is the exception. Cucks need to understand more about this. It can help them to live with a dominant male in their home-it can help them to submit to the right male. Whilst a bull can enjoy games, playtime in the bedroom, the best bulls I know are into owning and guiding a relationship. They’re teachers in part, sensuous pleasure takers and nurturers of a lifestyle that isn’t that common. They sustain the cuckold community. They make introductions, take Neil and Mags above. If they’re caring as well as dominant, then they attend pretty close to helping the hotwife live the most liberated and enjoyable sex life possible. When he takes a hotwife it is because she wants to submit to him-she prefers that. When he encourage her to explore and play and insist, he is helping her question conventions that have probably not truly worked for her in life before. An intelligent woman doesn’t just have one formula-she can enjoy both dominating and submitting. Sometimes that doesn’t work out- as in my last post- but in many it does. Sometimes, bulls help couples counter the terrible wasteland of vanilla sex that can stretch for decades ahead in a conventional set up. Consider, guy meets and falls in love with girl and they have an emotionally charged sex life for a few years. Familiarity, kids, stress and work erode some of the excitement of that. The lady doesn’t feel chased any more, she doesn’t feel erotic or sensual. She remembers how it felt to be a siren. He remembered what it was like to be in the hunt and yes, to feel uncertain. Its this stuff that needs to be recaptured, within a consensual way. Its this stuff that the bull contributes to.

For much of the time then bulls come and go in a couple’s relationship. If he over plays his hand, if the couple panic, then the interludes might be quite short, an experiment. I’ve known couples who tried out with one bull, lost their nerve, moved on and then tried another. Many sensuous women who have tasted better sex like to come back to it. A beta male husband accepts that, even encourages it. There will be a succession of men who fuck his wife and at different stages in their marriage the cucking may be more intense. That has been my experience. I have been with different couples for varying lengths of time and then each has gone a separate way. Sometimes it is because I seem too together about this. It scares husbands in particular. Hell, this one could really manage things. This one isn’t a thrill seeker only. But truth be told, I have always wanted to ‘own’ a couple and to play a bigger role in helping the hotwife become really independent. I have wanted to explore over years the developing relationship. If you think that a lot of bulls know about that, and have done it then I think you are wrong. It is very rare.

So now I play a game of chess and I know I want the thing with Emily, James and Mags to work. I am investing in this more and more. I have feelings for Emily and real affection for Mags. I am a bit in awe of Emily. How many women have the nerve and the intellect to run relationships as she does? She is so fucking sexy, so arousing, and yes it’s because of the way she is with me, the way she is with James and perhaps even too how she can be with Duncan. She is the most complete sexual woman that I have encountered on my wanderings. Sex isn’t an afterthought for her, it is a medium of living. So that raises a question about what a bull does when he meets such an exceptional woman? His instinct is to breed her-let me say, that is the case. But in the game of chess that urge isn’t followed up on. There is a huge time to go before such can really be considered. She has to establish her dominance of tbe husband sexually and in all situations. She must have a social circle that accepts that she fucks with his betters and that an accord has been found. They have to see that cuck hubby has a role too. When all that is complete, when the community can help counter social prejudice, then she might believe that it is time to breed. The cuck will be ready for it too and will have repeatedly asked her to go ahead. It is a lunatic step to conceive outside of such a supportive setting. It is if you are a bull like me and you want a role as a the recognised dad.

Its strange then, that a bull can be very assertive, pleasure selfish and yet supportive too. This is always consensual. Views welcome as always! Jezz